A publicly displayed lack of affection

The story of Juanita Bynum and her estranged husband Bishop Thomas Weeks has raised more than a few eyebrows over the past couple of days. Bynum is a woman known for preaching self-empowerment to women who have found themselves in bad relationships. However, this week, she is a victim of domestic violence as Weeks struck while in a hotel parking lot after dinner no less.

Then, yesterday, while I was driving home during rush hour along Watson Boulevard in Warner Robins, I saw a couple entangled in a love quarrel. It got so heated, the woman in the argument decided to walk across the street (mind you, not watching where she was going) and the man followed her. Once they reached the other side, they continued their spat which included yelling, pushing and shoving. The light was green, yet everyone, including myself, was gawking at the duo go at it.

What ever happened to discretion in these situations? If the problems veer onto a physical course, by all means, get law authorities and others involved. However, most situations, I think, can be worked out behind closed doors, whether it's just you and your significant other or a relationship therapist.

What do you think when you see a public spat between lovers? Have you ever engaged in one? Also, what are some ways to avoid a public spat when your significant other has upset you while out and about?