Monday, August 11, 2008

Love on a schedule

I know this very busy couple. They are both workaholics and heavily involved in various organizations and their respective churches. Actually, they met through a mutual organization.

Anyway, because they are always running around doing something, they have scheduled specific times during the week when they will meet. Some of these times even have specific purposes for them such as dinner or movie rentals. And they both literally sat down with their respective planners to map all of this out.

Now I understand why there might be a need to plot out time for romance. But when it is that plotted out, I think I would be concerned if there was room left for any spontaneity. And spontaneity is one of the ingredients that makes romance so fun.

What do you think of romance on a schedule? Have you tried it? Does it work for you? Where is the room for spontaneity?

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