Friday, August 22, 2008

Are ugly women desperate? We seem to think so.

The mayor of the small Australian town of Mount Isa has been catching some flak for his comments inviting ugly women to the town, which has a male-leaning population.

For anyone who missed it, here's Mayor John Molony's comments:

"May I suggest if there are five blokes to every girl, we should find out where there are beauty-disadvantaged women and ask them to proceed to Mount Isa," Cr Molony said.

"Quite often you will see walking down the street a lass who is not so attractive with a wide smile on her face. Whether it is recollection of something previous or anticipation for the next evening, there is a degree of happiness.

"Often those who are beauty-disadvantaged are uphappy with their lot.

"Some, in other places in Australia, need to proceed to Mount Isa where happiness awaits."


I'm sure by now the mayor regrets what he said, if for no other reason than to keep himself out of the international spotlight while saying dumb things.

But the reality is that the mayor's comments illustrate what many people already believe: Ugly, er, beauty-disadvantaged, women are desperate. The same goes for men. The prevailing thought is that unattractive people should lower their standards and accept mediocrity because, let's face it, they just can't get anything better.

Of course, this is untrue, and in the end, personality usually determines whether two people will stay together. But when this does happen many see it as an anomaly, wondering how the ugly chick ended up with the hot guy. Or, if someone is more attractive than we are, we automatically think of that person as unattainable. I have been guilty of having such thoughts myself.

What do you think of the mayor's comments? What role does beauty have in dating? Have you ever felt you weren't given a fair shot because of your looks? Do you ever view other people as unattainable or below your level because of their looks?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

This all reminds me of the old song (I don't remember the title)-- "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife......."
As not the cutest girl on the block, this gives me great comfort:)

Anonymous said...

ARTIST: Jimmy Soul
TITLE: If You Wanna Be Happy
Lyrics and Chords


If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry y

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he marries her, then she starts
Doin' the things that will break his hear

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
You'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks your meals on time
An she'll always give you peace of mind


Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly and her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the whole set of lyrics.
Maybe being pretty is too high maintenence for being happy. Having a happy heart is beautiful.

Anonymous said...

Hi,
I am not physically attractive, but not repulsive either. However, the girl I married is a real stunner. She is also the nicest person I have ever encountered. She is kind and gentle and very attentive.
I still cannot belive that she finds me attractive, but after 47 wonderful years of marriage, who cares!!!
God bless all of you and may you have half the good luck and happiness that I have been fortunate enough to have had.
Derek
Australia