Something can be learned from the Flavor of Love girls...

I have a confession to make. I watch Flavor of Love Charm School. That being said, last week's episode provided great insight into the way women often choose the wrong men.

The remaining contestants were given a lesson on the four types of men to avoid: the Player (charismatic womanizer), the Professional (career-driven and career-obsessed), the Pushover (sensitive punk) and the Parolee (the thug you want in the bedroom and only there). And then there's the guy every woman should seek- the Urban Renaissance man who actually embodies the positive characteristics of the four (charismatic, sensitive, career-driven and good in bed).

Then they were introduced to a group of men where each type was represented. The challenge for the women was to pick the Urban Renaissance man. Not a single contestant picked the right one.

Mind you, the guy wasn't the most attractive, nor was he flashy. He didn't have an overabundant amount of cockiness.

But yet, I couldn't help but think isn't that how it often works for us. We'll often look at the bad boy who is much more noticeable than the good guy lurking around. I've done it myself, often opting for the Player. Yeah I admitted it. Though lately, I've taken the more holistic approach to dating men.

Have you dated any of the four types of men to avoid? If so, do you notice that you go for a particular guy? Have you looked over a good guy before?